Silences....silences!

It is actually ironic that how people who are busy in their own lives, never texted/called their kins, haven’t talked to them in awhile are now up telling you “whoever you are or where ever you are, talk to them” they will listen to you without judging you, the same people who would procrastinate on you in need telling that you’re always complaining, or that we will meet in person and talk. The same people who spent their whole life proving their social existence even for the tiniest things over social media are posting stories that “they’re there to talk” and “they’re there to listen”. 

Why does a celebrity take a toll on y’all that you are suddenly awoken enthusiast up for your friends ?

Why does a celebrity demise have to tell that in the end, the whole of life becomes an act of letting go, but what always hurts the most is not taking a moment to say goodbye ? 

Because yes ! you never cared. 

 You never cared even to drop a text “Hey! How are you doing ?” 

Later being modest by asking everyone to talk to you, YOU ? a shrewd human who’s so busy making his life that he can’t take 15 minutes outta of his schedule to keep a check on your friends, kins OR even acquaintances. 

 

It is truly off the wall that NO, you were not available, you didn't care to listen when someone tried to talk to, when someone legit needed you. 

Stop faking. Everything. You're not that person who can help. 

Yes ! It is a personal upfront attack on your pseudo-generous social identity. 

You are just another HYPOCRITE HUMAN. 

If you really bothered to keep a check on your friends who needed you, you would have texted/called them instead of posting “that you care”, you plastered saint !

 “When did you last text any of your friends about his whereabouts ?”

** Withal, one of my friend yesterday blamed society, his friends of not keeping a check on him, the other had his heart out as to how lonely it is not having his father around and a boy isn’t supposed to cry and his friends not supporting him and calling emotionally fragile, the other developing self-disgust due to lack of an ear who would attendize him !! **

Silences are crippling, sometimes life changing. Life tears everyone apart, him apart, her apart !!

There is a common fallacy that nothing recedes success. Remember, there is a cross you must bear if you intend to be on the top, you lose family, you lose friends on the way up, it's lonely on top. 

Ergo, make talks, talks/calls/texts to your loved ones, your significant others. Talk to your loved ones, have them heart out to you. Listen to what they’ve to say, sharing their mental trauma with you without judging them. Anyone can cry, Anyone can be emotional. Insecurities are real. Running them is real. Be kind. Talk it out.

You might not give advice but being an ear is what you can do.  

May we all find our peace while we are here. While we are alive.  

Sending love to everyone outta there,

From knowingly yours,

Nandi :”))

“There’s a reason why I've been giving 50 TedTalks a day(:P)....It’s perhaps I cannot keep everyone happy but I will surely count you in. I try to talk to y’all but if I miss I AM HERE.”

DROP OFF….. Hey!  nandinipundir1711@gmail.com i will text back :”))